Dad's waiting for full diagnosis

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Hi there, I've joined the group in search of help and support for my dad who is going through the diagnostic process for bladder cancer at the moment and suffering with repeating UTIs, a lot of difficulty passing urine, and is very tired and in pain.

He's had the initial tests which have confirmed there is a 17cm tumor, he's also had follow up CT scans but we are waiting on results. The doctors have said he will need a TURBT, but they've also said there is a 6-8 week waiting list. 

There doesn't seem to be much he can do to relieve his current symptoms, apart from drinking lots of water and having the surgery. 6-8 weeks seems like a long time to wait when he is suffering.

Has anyone who's been through this got any tips or reassurances to get him through the road ahead? I'm hoping for practical things that have helped ease suffering.

Thank you 

Jen

  • Hi Jen, a tip for night bottle users. Store it in a stable/wide bucket beside the bed, so that it is not easily knocked over. Even the ones with caps do not actually contain the urine in my experience.

    Hope it works better,

    Denby