Husband diagnosed a month ago with Bladder cancer.

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My husband was diagnosed with Follicular Lymphoma and during a scan they found he also had Bladder cancer.

We are now back and forwards to two different Hospitals and two different consultants.

Today he is having a TURBT procedure, so hopefully we will find out soon just how far the tumour has progressed, then its back to see the consultant about the Lymphoma.

We are still in a state of shock.   I wondered if anyone else has been in this situation where you are dealing with two different cancers.

I am trying to be calm and support my husband as best I can, but TBH I just need advice on how to support him as he wont discuss the situation, and just says oh it will be ok after I've had a bit of chemo.    

I would welcome any advice you can give me.

Thank you.

  • How rotten for you both.  After the TURBT there is a wait of a few weeks for the lab report to determine stage & grade & what treatment is most appropriate. I guess that could be complicated by the lymphoma, but hopefully the consultants will communicate about that. BC is very treatable if caught early. 

    Perhaps once the results are in & you have been able to talk to the consultants, you will have a clearer idea of the path ahead, and what part you can play. Best wishes.

  • Hi Topcliffe,Welcome to this friendly group.How difficult for you both.Your husband will appreciate your support even if he doesn’t wish to talk much.I hope you will find some advice and support here.Best wishes Jane