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I thought I can cope but slowly I can feel going deep in a hole , we had terrible entrance of the year after a bad car crash my hubby survive without a scratch but 2 weeks after had problem with urinating again went forna check up they said will schedule operation while in hospital he had scan and scan came back with bad result had tumor in bladder that spread out already  chemo did not work now on radio theraphy hopefully it will help but dealing with his pain and confusion makes me depress.

  • Hi  and welcome to the group, although sorry to hear what you have been through. We know how bladder cancer can have an effect on family and loved ones. Hopefully the radio will help your husbands condition. Always somebody here to talk to with people who understand. Best wishes.

    Best wishes to All,   rily.

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  • Dear tots, welcome to this friendly and helpful group.

    Did you know that you can call the Macmillan helpline 8-8 for a friendly and understanding voice on the phone. Also look up your local Carers' Association. You are legally entitled to a free Carer's Assessment, to see what your needs for support are so that your husband's health problems don't mess you up too. And if you feel bad overnight Samaritans will listen to you, you don't have to be actually suicidal to call them. 

    Hope you can feel a bit better for sharing with us, 

    Denby

  • Hi tots,Welcome to the group.I’m sorry to hear what you and your husband have been going through.I hope you will find some support here.Best wishes Jane