Just a heads-up from the nurse this am. Giving last of top-up chemo series she says that different suppliers' batches can react differently on different patients. Suggesting this as a reason for greater irritation/pain after chemo [Mitomycin] this series that before, being a new German batch due to supply from previous source stopping.
The irritation for me is that last week she admitted that this series is because someone failed to do proper paperwork for the administration of a single dose as a 'washout' last flexi. So this saga has cost the NHS FOUR precious doses instead of one, and us four complete extra lots of travel and wrecked weeks. I am grateful really for the treatment just wrung out with the effects on us both. His mental health is really suffering with the frustration of not being able to get anything done and the humiliation/shame of increasing incontinence. Determined to ask GP at tomorrow's appt booked for a different issue, for incontinence service referral. The GP appt will be the third for the ever-larger inflamed patch on his leg which he's had for about 3 months, various creams to no effect. Today the chemo nurses bless them inspected it and reckon it's undiagnosed cellulitis which is/can be serious and will certainly not be cured by any creams.
Sorry for rant, just know you lovely folk understand where I am atm when he can't even cope with my being chatty with a friend who rang up a short while ago.
Just praying our traumas are unrepresentative and that you're all getting on better.
Denby
Hi Denby. Sorry to hear Mr. D is still having a tough time of it and I know these things have a knock on effect with loved ones. The MMC situation can't be helping. I hope your GP can offer some relief. Just wishing things get better soon for you both. Best wishes.
Hi Denby, sorry to hear of the frustrating time you and Mr D are having. Sometimes it's hard not to feel totally flattened by yet another problem rearing it's irritating head. The physical side effects are rotten for Mr D and he has my sincere sympathy but the situation is tough on you too. It sounds like you are always there at every appointment. Are there any other family members or friends who can help out so you can have the odd bit of respite time for yourself? Maybe a day out with a friend or something? At least that was the last top up of the series. Wishing you both a better time now. x
Hi Denby with the shortage of Mitomycin my hospital is giving a 6 week course of Epirubicin was told works the same. had my 3rd dose on Tuesday ,I had a bad night after it but think its my mistake by not drinking enough water after have the treatment had bad lower back ache in the night ,got up about 6 am after laying in bed not knowing what to do for the pain started drinking water most of the pain went away within an hour . I had back pain for the last week but am sure its muscle pain its still a bit tender ..Think the chemo must have messed with my kidney's ...Drinking plenty of water Not making that mistake again .cheers harry
Thank you Wilbert and everybody for your supportive replies. I really do appreciate them. Armed with strong recommendation from the 2 chemo nurses, this morning got the [sorry but true] ignorant young GP to give Flucloxacillin as well as yet another ointment so hopefully it will now start to recover. She was still saying..."in case..." but the pharmacist looked at it too and agreed he should start on the antibiotics straight away.
Anyway relief a day with nothing booked tomorrow -so I'm booking us a long lie-in apart from antibiotic doses! And thanks to Tesco bags of Help our carers group has free panto tickets just after Christmas, I'm looking forward to it.
Hugs to anyone else struggling at the moment.
Denby
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