New diognosis and pain

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  1. Hi, I was told I have anal cancer 16/12/24 after colonoscopy.  I have had mri, pet and ct scans and an examination and biopsy under general anthestetic and not heard anymore.  I am in agony, the painkillers are not touching the pain, does anybody else suffer like this?
  • Hi Lpge, 

    Sorry  you have found yourself here you have come to the right place for support. 

    Are you in contact with a McMillan Nurse if not speak to your Drs and ask for stronger pain relief. 
    Before I found out I had AC I was having paracetamol and ibuprofen and used a hot what bottle, by the time I found out my pain was much worse i asked  for stronger pain relief, I was given morphine tablets and Oramorph, I didn’t get on with the morphine tables so just stuck with the Oramorph which was a god send. 

    When  you had a date for when you start your treatment please come back, I’ll be happy to give you my daily routine which helped me get through my treatment, it’s not one cap fits all and everyone reacts differently, and there will plenty of others on here with great advice also. 

    Good luck take care

    Laura x x 

  • Hi LPG yes I was in exactly the same boat just after I was diagnosed, my GP only gave me mild painkillers and they didnt do a lot, and it hurt more after biopsy’s . I’m now on 100mg Pregabalin twice a day and if I’m really sore I use lidocaine cream and morphine. I’m now two weeks into treatment and still in pain but it’s a different pain to what I had, it’s more of a burning pain now but I think when treatment has ended and for a few weeks it will carry on but then I hope to be pain free. I also found a sitz bath helps massively with the pain and they’re not expensive. There will be light at the end of the tunnel !!! Well I bloody hope so. I hope you get better pain relief soon and all the best for your journey.

  • Hi Laura, thank you for your advise. I will try again tomorrow to get in touch with my doctor, it's so hard at the moment, just want you on the phone at a certain time or nothing!

  • Hi Lpge

    Welcome to the club that no-one wants to be in! I'm further down the line than you are, I have 9 days of treatment left to go!

    What pain meds ars you on? Who's in charge of your pain management?  I'm on Pregabalin for nerve pain, paracetamol, oramorph and mirtazapine,  I have a weekly review at the hospital and they are upping my morphine on a weekly basis to keep it all under control.

    When are you starting your treatment?  Sorry for all the questions. I wish you all the best on your journey.  Would recommend checking in on this forum, there is some invaluable advise and information on here. 

    Love and hugs Jeenie2001 

  • I think all my results will come through this week but I have told them no chemo, no radiation so have to have apr op.  Might sound unreal to some people but that's my preference.  I am only on ibuprofen and paracetamol,  they have not mentioned giving me anything else.

  • Hi LPgE,

    I’m sorry to hear of your diagnosis and that you are in so much pain. 
    Im sure that’s as well as reeling from the diagnosis you must feel quite alone having had no recent contact or updates from your team. It’s good that you have found the forum -welcome .

    I was certainly in a lot of pain prior to starting treatment and was given oromorph by the Oncologist.  It did help with the pain but you absolutely have to take stool softeners with it or can cause awful constipation. I would absolutely insist of having some dialogue with your GP as you should not be struggling to manage the pain without support. Tell the receptionist you have a cancer diagnosis.

    I really hope you can access some help very soon. X

  • Hi 

    Me again. Like others have said ask them for more pain relief and don't take no for an answer. Xx

  • Hi  ,

    I know it’s not easy even getting to speak with a GP via phone these days let alone a face to face appointment but if you get through to a receptionist please stress that you have had a cancer diagnosis & you need to be seen for a pain medication review. You shouldn’t be left in such discomfort when there are options out there. If you’re prescribed anything opiate based please ask for a stool softener also such as Laxido or Movicol as they slow everything down including our bowels & can often result in some constipation which is not what you want when you’re already in pain.

    As for your choice of treatment paths it is exactly that, your choice, that should be a conversation between you, your oncologist & your colorectal surgeon & it really is nobody else’s business so please never feel that you need to explain your decision here.

    We’re here to support you however we can. 

    Nicola 

  • Hello Lpge

    I am so sorry you had the need to find us, but you have come to the right place.  Just about all of us on here have had or have anal cancer and many have the pain you describe.  Are you in touch with the team who did the investigation?  You really shouldn't be having to go through this level of pain, as a matter of urgency I would ring all the departments who have been involved in your investigations and diagnosis.  Your own GP would be a start, but I do understand the difficulties in even getting an appointment, but Nicola is absolutely right, please don't be fobbed off by the receptionist.

    And whatever treatment you decide upon, we are here to support you.

    Irene xx