Hello all,
Well today was my last day as a patient at The Royal Marsden. I’ve finally made it to the 5 year mark I am officially discharged and cancer free.
I was diagnosed in 2021 as T4 N2 M0 - Stage IIIC. (yup, just as far as you can go without tipping into the treatable not curable stage IV). I count my blessings! I was a whisper away… hence being so closely monitored for the last 5 years.
I just thought this might give some hope to those either beginning their journey or already on their journey, to say that there can be and is hope. And what I’ve learnt along the way is that Stage IV also has much better outcomes and longevity. So please don’t give up hope, science is changing every day. It’s not a journey we would wish on anyone but we can help each other when we find ourselves in the worst of places
I can’t lie, it’s been a roller coaster but here we are. I am officially cancer free! To celebrate I came home, had a glass of champagne and put my pyjamas on (rock n roll) but to me that is all I need. That and that my young daughters who have a mummy. They were 8 and 10 when I was diagnosed.
So to everyone on this forum, I just want to thank you for all the love and support we show one another. It’s our biggest gift. Because knowledge is power. Sharing all our tips and experiences is what helps us all know we are not alone. It helps us navigate this most scary of times.
And best of all, we have a cancer that is generally very curable. And who thought we’d ever say that about having Alan cancer (yes I still can’t say anal).
THANK YOU everyone on here that has been part of my journey and our love to those who we may sadly have lost along the way. Ask me anything - always happy to help. Thinking of everyone on here today.
lots of love to you all
Pretty Pink Roses xx
Such happy and reassuring news, thank you so much for sharing! Wishing you all the best going forward 
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Hi, I was really pleased to read your story, and so happy to hear that you’ve remained cancer-free for the past five years. I’m sending you my very best wishes that this continues for many, many years to come.
I hope you don’t mind me asking, but did you experience vaginal stenosis following your treatment? If so, were you eventually able to improve enough to enjoy a fulfilling sex life again?
I’m asking because I’m currently struggling with using the dilators and finding it quite difficult. I would be so grateful for any advice, tips or reassurance you might be able to offer from your own experience.
Thank you for sharing your story. It really does give others hope. ️
