Thank You

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Hi, I just wanted to thank everyone for being so open & honest. I first posted late September when I was diagnosed with Anal Cancer and so many people offered reassurance and were all so lovely. I've had my planning scan today and will hopefully start Chemoradiotherapy on Monday 18th November, I'm not going to lie, I'm scared of what the next few months has in store for me but reading everyone's comments makes me feel less alone, I've got a really supportive husband & 14 year old daughter but I don't always want to discuss this with them. Every day I pop on to read all the posts and have taken note of what everyone has said and I'm going to take each day at a time & listen to my body. This group is amazing and it feels like an extended family, you are all awesome and I just wanted to Heartsay thank you Heart xx️

  • Hi Ballerina 

    Like you say one day at a time. Its a couple of months out of your life to get your health back. You can do this.xxxx

  • Ballerina

    What a lovely post, and you truly don't have to to thank us but it is much appreciated.  So many people help each other on here, it is the beauty of the forum.

    One thing I would bear in mind is that sometimes you might find that you just have to share what is going on with your nearest and dearest and that's ok - it doesn't always help you when you protect everyone at your expense.  And I totally understand - I wasn't even going to tell my daughters about my diagnosis and I was about to lose all my hair as I had six-months chemo prior to the combined chemo/radiotherapy.  I have to pinch myself to think I thought I could do that!

    We are here to help support along the way if you need it, please let us know how you get on.

    Irene xx

  • Hi - you will get this done! A few months Bungle said is a small price for life and a future.  Be brave and use us in here to share and ask questions, it will seem daunting but so many people can help at your treatment centre, the radiographers, reception team, Macmillan nurses, Consultant and secretary too along with other people waiting for their treatment. 

    Don’t wait for appointments to ask questions, pick up the phone and ask for help - you will get it x 

    I had my first 3 month MRI this week - walked in did it and out again as if nothing special to see here!  My first MRI I panicked, cried and turned round!  This treatment may be ok or may be so hard / but you will get treated, will get your life back and will carry on a slightly different / better person x 

    I think along with so many on here I an grateful, thankful and blessed to live and have this medical helpHeart

    1. Hi Ballerina , 

    im 4 + months from finishing my treatment and still in need of this amazing support group or extended family as you call them ..

    I have my mri ct scans booked for next month and after months of treatment , repair to the body , the anxiety is starting to kick in !! … to each and everyone that takes time to read and post , a massive thank you … everyone’s journey is different but we are all facing the same hopes and fears 

    chrissie xx