Hi all. Not sure where to start or what I’m asking. My dad has been diagnosed with stage 4 small cell lung cancer which has spread to his thoracic spine. He’s in so much pain which the gp has been trying to control with zomorph and pregabalin but it’s not helping much. Whilst they may be able to offer chemo to help with the pain they can’t treat his cancer and have basically told us he only has months. I just don’t know where to start with processing this. I have two young children who adore him and I can’t even bare the thought of him not being part of their lives. Or mine. And I’m devastated for mum who will lose her husband of 45 years. Grateful to have had Christmas with him. Can’t even think what the next few weeks will hold. Just don’t know how to deal with this at all. My head is all over the place. Trying to get through the day one hour at a time. Can anyone offer any advice? Xxxx
