Hi all, I've been following this forum for a while now, amazed at the courage and support amongst members. It's wonderful!
I was just wondering if people could offer their experiences of initial symptoms (or lack of) and how they were diagnosed. Also interested in GP responses when you first went to see them and how long it took to get referred. As a 45 year old, the response to me is "of course it's not bowel cancer. You're not old enough and you don't have a family history". Although i am sure they are right, but i feel slightly dismissed and my fears and concerns not taken very seriously. Thankfully I am seeing specialists and having tests over the next few weeks, so I will finally know.
Thanks in advance for whatever personal experiences you feel able to discuss...Sarah xxx
Hi Jane,
Thank you for your reply. I try not to worry too much, but at the moment just find it difficult to concentrate on anything else... One thing I learnt in these few days is that cancer is sooooo unpredictable - one day it's not there and day after it's back. I've read stories about people with very pessimistic prognosis who seem to be fighting it quite well. Sometimes it's the other way around... Todays medicine, although progressed a lot, still doesn't seem to have control over this illness. I think it's important to seek as many opinions as possible.
I understand that it must be very difficult for Becci to stay strong, but she must find something look forward to. I hope her friends are there for her a lot of time, trying to talk about things other than cancer...
I've had quite a few bad accidents before and sometimes something little, like looking after my dog kept me going.
Lots of hugs to you and Becci xxx
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