First time posting. My mum was diagnosed last week with a rare type of ovarian cancer the last week has been unbelievable. We have found out it has spread to several organs and her bones. She has been moved to the palliative care ward. She is 61. I am struggling to comprehend how this has happened so quickly. They have said she likely has weeks. She isn’t in pain fortunately. I am devastated and trying to be strong for my mum, who seems calm and at peace. I don’t really know why I’m posting. I can’t stop crying when I’m away from the hospital and I need to pull myself together as I have a family and work full time. I didn’t know you could experience actual heart ache until now.
Hi EmilyJ94 and a very warm welcome to the online community which I hope you'll find is both an informative and supportive place to be.
I’m Anne, one of the Community Champions here on the Online Community, and I'm really sorry to read about your mum.
It's understandable that you're finding everything so hard at the moment so can I recommend that you join the supporting someone with incurable cancer group as you'll then connect directly with others who are in the same position as you.
To join, just click on the link I've created and, once you've joined, you can start a new post in the same way as you did here and join in with existing conversations by clicking on 'reply'.
Sending virtual ((hugs))
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