My Nan has terminal brain cancer and we were told last week that she likely only has a few weeks to live. She’s had various types of cancer for over a decade but I think we are all still a bit shocked at how quickly this has come around.
I’m very close with my nan, she’s probably the family member that I am closest to out of everyone, so I am struggling quite a lot with how to cope with this. I’ve also been very fortunate to not have experienced a major loss so far in my 25 years of life, so I’m finding it quite scary because I’m not sure what to expect or how I’m going to carry on without her in my life.
I’d really appreciate any advice or support from people who have been through something similar.
Hi Zoe_1511 im so sorry about your nan. I lost my last grandparent when i was about your age but that was a long time ago. I did lose someone who i was close to a few years back not to cancer but to another horrible illness and even though i knew it was coming it was still a shock and i felt a lot of anger. I promise you will carry on without her ( im sure she would want you to ). In time it will hurt less and you learn to live with it. These forums are split into different sections to make it easier to connect with people in your situation. I have put a link below for you to pick which one is best for you.
Spend all the time you can with your nan. Sending hugs
Xx
Hi Bungle1, thank you so much for your kind reply. I’ve been struggling quite a lot with this and it really helps to know that I’m not alone. I’m really sorry to hear that you lost someone that you were close to, and I appreciate the reassurance that it will be okay in time. I’ll definitely take a look at the link, thank you again xx
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