Diagnosed on New Year's Eve :(

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Hi everyone.  Got my diagnosis on New Year's Eve. Stage 4 small cell lung cancer. Terminal, and it's spread to my bones, back, lymph, and brain. Prognosis 4 - 6 months or maybe 12 months with chemo. Fighting it with chemo especially for my wife and my 4 year old. Any support, ideas, or suggestions would be very welcome. There's so much information to absorb and my brain is overloaded with all this new information, things I need to do, managing work and family etc. 

  • Hi  and a very warm welcome to the Macmillan Community but sorry to hear about your diagnosis. 

    I know from experience having been on my cancer journey for over 25 years with two very rare, hard to treat types of Non Hodgkin’s Lymphomas (one incurable) that navigating this journey can be such a stressful and challenging time but talking with and getting support from people who have walked or are walking the ‘exact same' journey can help a lot.

    The Community is actually divided into dedicated Support Groups (Discussion Rooms) so can I recommend that you look to join and put up your own post in our dedicated……..

       Living with incurable cancer - incurable patients only

    …….. support area. This group is a safe place to talk to others with a similar diagnosis, treatment experience, to ask questions and get support.

    To connect in with the group please click on the link above……. then once the group page opens you will see a [Black - Click to Join - Banner] at the bottom of the page, click in this box and this will then confirm that you have joined the group.

    You can then introduce yourself to the group by putting up your very own post by clicking [+ Create new post] or [+] in the top right of the group page.

    You can copy and paste the text from this post into your new post.

    The Macmillan Support Line is open between 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00…… this service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support, benefits and financial guidance or just a listening ear.

    Talking to people ‘face to face’ can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing.

    Do get back to me if you need further help navigating the community.

    Mike (Thehighlander)

    It always seems impossible until its done - Nelson Mandela

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  • Thanks Mike. Your support and the information are greatly appreciated.