Hi
My husband has stage 4 prostrate cancer and we have now been told there is literally nothing that the doctors can do for him so it’s a waiting game now due to the cancer spreading to his bones and lymph nodes and his cancer is now hormone resistant. We have been living with this for 6 years and I am now in a panic, shock state of how will I cope? What’s going to happen? Etc etc etc. I am so scared and worried about the future with him and without him.
Hello Stanley01480338
A warm welcome to the Macmillan Online Community although I am so sorry to find you joining us. I am Brian one of the Community Champions here on the online Community, I am also in the 4th year of my personal Prostate Cancer journey. The Community is divided up into cancer specific groups or forums and I would advise you to join us on the Prostate Group - here's the link you need:
Once you click on the link and the page opens up, click on "join" on the black banner at the bottom of the page. You cna then introduce yourself in the "New Here - Say Hello" section by either copying and pasting or reposting the post above - I can assure you of plenty of replies.
You may also wish to join these groups for help and advice if you are his main carer:
Supporting someone with incurable cancer forum
Please do also contact our Support Line on 0808 808 00 00 (8am to 8pm 7 days a week) as they will be able to point you in the right direction for lots more help and support.
Best wishes - Brian.

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