Hello im new here and after support my friend has been diagnosied with life limiting cancer and also cant walk and i am their main carer as their family are all dead its taking its toll on my mental health and i need support
Im so sorry about your friend. I have put a link below for the carers section of the forums, if you join and post there you will be able to connect with people in the same situation as you.
Also most areas have cancer charitys so you would be ablebto connect in person with people. My area has one called the big c and ive seen a lot of people post about one called maggies which seems to be quite wide spread.
Sending hugs. Xx
Hi ellie200055681 and a very warm welcome to the online community which I hope you'll find is both an informative and supportive place to be.
I’m Anne, one of the Community Champions here on the Online Community, and I'm really sorry to hear about your friend.
The online community is divided into different support groups so I'm going to recommend that you join the supporting someone with incurable cancer group as you'll then connect directly with others who are supporting someone with a life limiting cancer.
To join, just click on the link I've created and, once you've joined, you can start a new post in the same way as you did here and join in with existing conversations by clicking on 'reply'.
Caring for someone can be very rewarding but also emotionally and physically exhausting. You might find this information from Macmillan on emotional support for carers and practical support for carers helpful to have a look through.
If you feel that talking things through would be helpful then the Support Line is available every day of the week from 8am to 8pm. It's free to call and the number is 0808 808 0000.
Sending ((hugs))
Whatever cancer throws your way, we’re right there with you.
We’re here to provide physical, financial and emotional support.
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