My husband was bleeding in may, we found out the end of June he has stage 4 cancer, he was catheterised when we went for a camera due to not being able to wee. He has a stoma fitted the week after. He went into hospital a week later for routine bloods, found a blood clot on his lung and thighs. Came home after 3 days I was looking after him at home we were doing ok, he stopped getting out of bed. We were then suppose to go for radiotherapy on the wed.lots of bleeding out of his bottom, paramedics were called. He’s now been in hospital 4 weeks and awaiting a bed in a hospice and they have advised against chemo. It’s been a world wind
Hi Kimboo08a6de1 and a warm welcome to the Macmillan Community but so sorry to hear about your husband’s diagnosis.
A cancer diagnosis in the family like this can be such a challenging and stressful time but getting support from others who are dealing with the ‘exact same' support challenges can help you a lot.
The Community is actually divided into dedicated Support Groups (Discussion Rooms) and when it comes to the practical and emotional challenges of supporting your husband and indeed yourself you may benefit from joining and posting in our……
Supporting someone with incurable cancer
……. support groups where you will connect with a wide range of members navigating the exact same support challenges.
To connect with a group click on the “Bold Italic Links” I have created above …… then once the group page opens click in the [Black - Click to Join - Banner] that appears at the bottom of the page and this will then confirm that you have joined the group.
When you are ready……. you can introduce yourself by putting up your very own post by clicking [+ Create new post] or [+] in the top right of the group page.
You can copy and paste the text from this post into your new post.
It is an emotional time supporting family so you might find this Macmillan information your feelings when someone has cancer helpful as well as this link getting help with your emotions.
The Macmillan Support Line is open between 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00…… this service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support, benefits/financial guidance or just a listening ear.
Talking to people ‘face to face’ can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing.
Do get back to me if you need further help navigating the community.
