Should I get a second opinion about my operation for ovarian cancer if it wasn’t done by an oncologist surgeon? I’m beside myself that he left cancer inside and didn’t do a total debulking surgery . I can see now the importance of that but at the time I didn’t have the information I have now as the op was urgent and I just wanted it out . Will a second surgeon onc even entertain doing this for me ? I’m asking my doctor this week for a referral .. how should I word it without sounding like I’m complaining . I live in a small community and am aware of everyone knowing each other . I’m desperate for help . I’m onto my third chemo this week and feeling like it’s all for nothing , can chemo even shrink cancer left in on rectum and omentum ?
Hi Happydays and a very warm welcome to the Macmillan Community.
As you see the Community is actually divided into dedicated Support Groups (Discussion Rooms) and I can see that you have already joined and posted in our dedicated Ovarian cancer support group
This group is a safe place to talk to others with a similar diagnosis, treatment experience, to ask questions and get support.
The Macmillan Support Line is open between 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00…… this service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support, benefits/financial/work guidance or just a listening ear.
We also have our Ask an Expert section but do allow 3 working days for a reply.
Talking to people ‘face to face’ can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing.
Do get back to me if you need further help navigating the community.
Whatever cancer throws your way, we’re right there with you.
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