I discovered a large lump in my groin area just before Christmas but by beginning of January it had grown a lot. I hadn’t been unwell so was concerned. Immediately went to the GP who examined me and ordered bloods and an ultrasound. Bloods were mostly reassuring and had the ultrasound a week later. Less than 24 hrs later the GP rang and said something had showed on the scan and was referring me to hospital on the 2 week pathway, referral form said suspected haematology malignancy. I saw a consultant on the 10th feb and was told the lump was an enlarged lymph node around 5cm. It’s firm/rubbery, painless and fixed. I have fatigue, night sweats, chills and random bruising. Ct scan and ultrasound guided biopsy ordered and had both this past week. I’m back to see the consultant on the 11th March to discuss results.
The waiting and not knowing completely messes with you. I’m keeping busy and trying to be kind to myself.
Hi Wendi45 and welcome to the Macmillan Community but so sorry to hear about your ongoing diagnosis. Navigating the cancer journey can be such a stressful and challenging time
I am Mike and I help out around our various blood cancer groups. I was diagnosed way back in 1999 with my first type of Non Hodgkin’s Lymphoma….. that took a year to diagnose…… then in 2013 I was diagnosed with a second type of Non Hodgkin’s Lymphoma in late 2013…… but all these years later I am still here living a great life.
On the whole most types of blood cancers are very treatable…… there are over 100 different types of blood cancers, some are rare so it can take time to get clear answers.
Once you know what type of blood cancer you have you may want to have a look through this link Cancer Specific Groups where you will find all our dedicated cancer support groups listed.
These groups are safe places to talk to others who may have a similar diagnosis, treatment experience, to ask questions and get support from members who are navigating the exact same journey.
Have a look through the LIST above and once you find the support group for your cancer type....... click on the link and when the group page opens you will see a [Black - Click to Join - Banner] at the bottom of the page, click in this box and this will then confirm that you have joined the group.
When you are ready……. you can introduce yourself by putting up your very own post by clicking [+ Create new post] or [+] in the top right of the group page.
The Macmillan Support Line is open between 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00…… this service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support, benefits/financial guidance or just a listening ear.
Talking to people ‘face to face’ can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing.
Always around to chat and do get back to me if you need further help navigating the community.
