Diagnosed with bowel cancer Oct 2023, section of bowel and part of rectum removed, ileostomy formed Nov 2023. Adjuvant chemo CAPOX scheduled for 4 cycles starting Jan 2024. Finished first cycle and 2 days later had a heart attack - 2 stents fitted. Ileostomy reversed July 2024 and bowels settling down nicely.
Follow up scans / tests Jan this year have shown the cancer has spread to liver - surgey and radiation not an option chemo only (TOMOX). Told I have 6 to 12 months left give or take - maybe 18 months with chemo.
Probably not going with the chemo, just enjoy what's left whilst I am feeling fine. Anyone else have a similar experience, any advice experience of the TOMOX chemo, what happens near the end?? So worried and anxious. 71 years old.
Hi Jonna and a very warm welcome to the online community which I hope you'll find is both an informative and supportive place to be.
The online community is divided into different support groups and I can see that you've already found and joined the bowel cancer group, which is a great place to ask questions, share experiences and get support. When you feel ready you can start a new post there in the same way as you did here and join in with existing conversations by clicking on 'reply'.
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