Have surgery on Tuesday cutting out an area 3 week
recovery . Radio maybe chemo. Checking nodes
struggling with anxiety and sleeping
it's like I'm living nightmare
my biggest fear dieing leaving my 20 year old son
the doctor said it was treatable just trying to hold on to that word
worse at night
Yes I feel the same. My surgery is next Monday. I have 5 children youngest is 18 their dad died of cancer 10 years ago. So having it myself has been my biggest fear. Hugs for you. Xx
Hi Ique and welcome to the Macmillan Community but so sorry to hear about your diagnosis and the challenges you are dealing with.…..
I know the cancer journey well as I have lived with and been treated for my incurable cancer for over 25 years but getting support from people in the same journey can help a lot.
This New to Community area is like our reception desk where we look to direct you to the best part of the Community for you to get support. The Community is actually divided into dedicated Cancer Support Groups (Discussion Rooms)………… but you don’t say what type of cancer you have but if you care to have a look through THIS LIST you will find all our dedicated cancer support groups listed.
These groups are safe places to talk to others who may have a similar diagnosis, treatment experience, to ask questions and get support from members who are navigating the exact same journey.
Have a look through the LIST above and once you find the support group for your cancer type....... click on the link and when the group page opens you will see a [Black - Click to Join - Banner] at the bottom of the page, click in this box and this will then confirm that you have joined the group.
When you are ready……. you can introduce yourself by putting up your very own post by clicking [+ Create new post] or [+] in the top right of the group page.
You can copy and paste the text from this post into your new post.
The Macmillan Support Line is open between 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00…… this service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support, benefits/financial guidance or just a listening ear.
Talking to people ‘face to face’ can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing.
Do get back to me if you need further help navigating the community.
Whatever cancer throws your way, we’re right there with you.
We’re here to provide physical, financial and emotional support.
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