Hi, I wasn’t even sure if I was allowed to join a group on here as for me nothing is confirmed. I found a lump in my breast yesterday and was seen by a GP the same morning who has referred me to the hospital for further investigations. I’m not in the limbo stage waiting for my appointment and obviously my brain is going to the worst places. I’ve told my partner and my mum but I just feel anxious. I have a young daughter and I just want to be happy for her especially over the Christmas period. I’ve made the mistake of googling different things which had just sent my brain to overdrive. I’m just looking for some support during this time because right now I don’t know what to do xxx
Hi ks95
I’m sorry you find yourself here. I too have just joined and feeling very sad to find myself here. I have different symptoms of a blood from the nipple. Happening just once this week and awaiting the breast clinic for tests. I too am in a whirlwind of anxiety and fearing the worst. I’ve googled and searched the internet high and low for reassurance. There’s many positive outcomes on this site and we must remember those who go on after their appointments with a good result and nothing to worry about more than likely don’t return to this site to inform. The only way we’ll have answers is once we’ve been checked over. I feel your worries, I find googling intensifies the anxiety. Here if you’d like to chat and equally if anyone else here has had similar symptoms I’d like to know how you are getting on xx
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Hi KS95 , Peachy1 and Filo and a very warm welcome to the online community which I hope you'll find is both an informative and supportive place to be.
Waiting for tests and then the results of tests is a really horrible place to be and, having gone through a breast cancer diagnosis myself, I can totally understand your worries.
The online community is divided into different support groups so I'm going to recommend that you all join the breast cancer group, which is a great place to ask questions, share experiences and get support. There you'll get to chat to others who are in the same place as you are.
To join, just click on the link I've created and, once you've joined, you can start a new post in the same way as you did here and join in with existing conversations by clicking on 'reply'.
Hopefully for all of you then will be a non-cancerous explanation for your referrals but, even if it isn't, treatment for breast cancer has really advanced over the years. I was diagnosed nearly 3 years ago and having had surgery followed by chemotherapy and radiotherapy I have since had 2 clear mammograms.
Sending ((hugs))
Thank you so much for taking the time to share your experience which certainly gives hope if the outcome is not the best for any of us. Really happy to hear you're in such a good place now xxx
Peachy1 Filo Ma78 latchbrook thank you so much for all taking the time to respond. I think I may call the support line tomorrow just to talk through how I’m feeling as I personally don’t know anyone who has been through this process. Your messages are all incredibly lovely and have helped me to feel more positive. I just have to wait and see what happens and be grateful that I found the lump and am getting it checked. I am wishing you all the positivity in the world xxxx
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