Starting my journey

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Dear All, I am in a bit of a whirl wind as just getting my head around the situation. I have a breast lump and they did a mammogram and ultrasound yesterday and said things look very suspicious so took 3 biopsies. They have told me to prepare for a cancer diagnosis and to bring hubby with me when I get clinic appointment through.

I actually feel I am coping better today than I did yesterday and from the build up to my appointment. I think it was walking into the hospital and meeting the consultant made me feel I am now in good hands.

I hope I can be a support to others on their journey and send you all love and hugs xxx

  • Hi, I also went to the breast clinic a couple of days ago for a lump to be checked and ended up having 4 biopsies and was told it's highly likely I have cancer. I spoke to the breast care nurse and said I thought cancer couldn't be confirmed until the biopsy results were looked at? She was very understanding at my confusion and explained occasionally they doctors can detect cancer without the biopsy results. I'm still hoping that they have got it all wrong (optimistically or ignorantly) but in the meantime I'm an emotional wreck. 

    Has anyone else been told they likely have cancer before their biopsy results? 

    Thank you for sharing. Hope everything goes well for you. 

  • Hi, thank you so much for your reply and I too thought the same so am a bit confused about the biopsy thing. Have you been told when you will get the results? My clinic have meetings on a Friday and she doesn't think the biopsy information will be back by this Friday so may have to wait until the Friday after and will then be called into the clinic the week after. It really is an emotional rollercoaster. I am trying to look at the positives and deal with the things I can control. Sending you lots of love and hugs xxx

  • I'm booked in to see the consultant next Tuesday,  so not too long to wait, although this week has so far felt like a month! Hope you do get seen soon as the wait is agonising. I thought I'd be stronger. I haven't been into work I'm just about managing to keep it together for my kids! 

    Keep trying to stay positive. X

  • I will have everything crossed for you for next Tuesday, I have booked the rest of the week off work as finding it hard to focus. Don't worry about thinking you have to be strong I think times like this we are allowed to break and have a good weep. How old are your children? Mine are grown up so told them last night, hubby wants to start making batches of soup as his way of helping bless him. Will be thinking of you, we can be recovery buddies together xxx 

  • They're 20 (still at home) & 12. Not told the 12 year old anything yet. Thank you for the luck next week. Let me know when you get your appointment. Bless your husband, it's great he's been prepared (or is it so he knows he's going to be fed still!) All the best, will keep in touch x

  • Hi  and a very warm welcome to the Macmillan Community but sorry to hear about your ongoing diagnosis. 

    Navigating this journey can be such a stressful and challenging time but getting support from people who have walked or are walking the ‘exact same' journey can help a lot. (I have a completely different cancer).

    It’s good to see that you have connected with community member  in your first post…… 

    But this New to Community area is like our reception desk where we look to try and direct you to the best part of the Community for you to get support.

    The Community is actually divided into dedicated Support Groups (Discussion Rooms) so can I recommend that you look to join and put up your own post in our dedicated Breast Cancer Support Group.

    This group is a safe place to talk with a large group of people with a similar diagnosis, treatment experience, to ask questions and get support. To connect in with the group please click on the link below…….

             Breast cancer

    ……. and once the group page opens you will see a [Black - Click to Join - Banner] at the bottom of the page, click in this box and this will then confirm that you have joined the group.

    You can then introduce yourself to the group by putting up your very own post by clicking [+ Create new post] or [+] in the top right of the group page.

    You can copy and paste the text from this post into your new post.

    The Macmillan Support Line is open between 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00…… this service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support, benefits/financial guidance or just a listening ear.

    Talking to people ‘face to face’ can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing.

    Do get back to me if you need further help navigating the community ((hugs))

    Mike (Thehighlander)

    It always seems impossible until its done - Nelson Mandela

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  • Hi  and a very warm welcome to the online community which I hope you'll find is both an informative and supportive place to be.

    Preparing for a possible cancer diagnosis can feel very daunting but I'm glad to read that you feel that you're in good hands.

    As the online community is divided into different support groups I'm going to recommend that you join the breast cancer group which is a great place to ask questions, share experiences and give and receive support.

    To join, just click on the link I've created and, once you've joined, you can start a new post in the same way as you did here and join in with existing conversations by clicking on 'reply'.

    If you have any problems navigating to the group just drop me a reply and I'll be pleased to help.

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  • Hi  

    I was diagnosed with breast cancer in April 2022 following a recall after a mammogram.

    At the clinic they used an enhanced mammogram followed by an ultrasound and then a biopsy.

    After the ultrasound I was told that it was very likely that I had breast cancer. I think they can tell by what the lump looks like on the screen as to whether it's likely to be cancer or not.

    I can see that you've already found and joined the breast cancer group where I know you'll get plenty of support.

    When you feel ready to introduce yourself, just start a new post in the same way as you did here.

    ((hugs))

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  • Just wanted to let you know I will be thinking of you today, sending lots of love and hugs xxx