My sister is dying

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Hello all

I’m 78 years old and known my sister for 75 years.

She is now in palliative care after her brain cancer caused a seizure. She is writhing in end of life pain and can’t speak or recognise anything.

Tomorrow I am visiting her, knowing that hearing is the last thing to go.

She deserves peace after years of fighting cancer in most of her body.

 I would really love to know how others have handled this kind of situation please

love

Tony

  • Hi Tony  I am sorry to hear about your sister’s prognosis. I have no first hand experience but you may benefit from joining and posting in our dedicated Supporting someone with incurable cancer support group where you will connect with a wide range of members navigating the exact same support challenges.

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