Early days

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Hi, my name is James and I’m just starting out on this journey. I’d be having some symptoms of PC for many months and thought that at 57 I was growing old, Getting up in the night to pee, flow problems etc. 

I finally saw my doctor in May who examined me and suggested I should have a PSA test. That was done 2 weeks later. I should have been concerned that he was back on the phone within 24 hrs saying it was high and he’d start the 2 week pathway. 

I was in shock and hadn’t really understood what was happening until I spoke to the Urology team who confirmed my PSA score of 135. She suggested a second test which came back at 148. 

Since then I’ve tried to read as much as I can and realise I’ve got a fight on my hands.

Ive had a CT scan and subsequently met with the consultant who has diagnosed  T3. I’ve now had a biopsy which is another post for another time, a bone scan, daily hormone treatment and my first hormone injection. 

It’s fair to say things are moving incredibly quickly which in its own right terrifies me but I have my final consultation this Thursday where I hope to understand the Gleason score, whether it’s spread and what treatment options are available. 

I’ve been reading these forums which I’ve found incredibly helpful and supportive but the not knowing is beyond worrying and I’m finding the stress of it is taking it’s toll.

Best wishes to everyone who is navigating this too. 

  • Hi James - we've all been through this pre-treatment stage.  The uncertainty, the waiting as each diagnostic task is presented and a picture is slowly emerging.  It's tough, but I can re-assure you it gets better oonce you know the plan going forwards.  

    1. Not long to wait now - thanks Mmum
  • Hi  and a very warm welcome to the Community but sorry to hear about your ongoing diagnoses.

    Navigating the cancer journey can be such a stressful and challenging time. I have been on my journey with a completely different (incurable) cancer for over 25 years and the one thing that helped a lot was getting support from people who have walked the ‘exact same' cancer journey.

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