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Good evening everyone I am new to this forum 

my husband has psa 60 currently taking enzaltumide for past 4 weeks as he’s been diagnosed with advanced prostate cancer

he is constantly tired, fatigued major loss of appetite and often seems distant 

I just wondered if anyone has experienced similar side effects and if there’s any advice on how these side effects can be managed?

it seems he’s now having reduced quality of life as feels too tired and lethargic to do very much 

thank you 

  • Hi  and a very warm welcome to the Macmillan Community but sorry to hear about your husbands diagnosis. 

    A cancer diagnosis in the family can be such a challenging and stressful time but getting support from others who are dealing with the ‘exact same' cancer type or support challenges will help you a lot……. I have a completely different type of cancer and treatment journey.

    This New to Community area is like our reception desk where we try to direct you to the best part of the Community for you to get support. The Community is actually divided into dedicated Support Groups (Discussion Rooms) so can I recommend you join and post in our……

                 Prostate cancer

    ……… support group. This group is a safe places to talk to others who may have a similar diagnosis, treatment experience, to ask questions and get support from family members who are navigating the same support journey.

    As for the practical and emotional challenges of supporting your husband and indeed yourself you may benefit from joining and posting in our……

             Carers only

    ……. support group where you will connect with a wide range of members navigating the exact same support challenges.

    To connect with a group click on the “Bold Italic Links” I have created above …… then once the group page opens click in the [ Black - Click to Join - Banner ] that appears at the bottom of the page and this will then confirm that you have joined the group.

    When you are ready……. you can introduce yourself by putting up your very own post by clicking [ + Create new post] or [ + ] in the top right of the group page.

    You can copy and paste the text from this post into your new post.

    You may find it helpful to call the Macmillan Support Line open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00. This service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support, benefits/financial guidance or just a listening ear.

    We also have our Ask an Expert section but do allow 3 working days for a reply.

    Talking to people face to face can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing and support all the family.

    Do get back to me if you need further help navigating the community ((hugs))

    Mike (Thehighlander)

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  • Hi juLs47, and another warm welcome from me, as Mike, Thehighlander, has suggested, the prostate cancer forum would be a great forum to join, as a member myself with advanced prostate cancer who is very familiar with all your husbands side effects' ,and HAD most of them, as have most of the guys and ladies on the forum, I can confidently say you will get all your questions and concerns answered plus advice and suggestions to help you both through this difficult time, they really are a wonderful, friendly knowledgeable and funny group who would be happy to help you any way we can, I look forward to seeing you there, If you feel it's not for you, I would be happy to answer your questions the best I can, my best wishes to you and your husband, take care.

    Eddie xx