My husband has small cell carcinoma of unknown primary, a rare type and he’s probably the youngest (adult ) to have this (32). The doctor said they don’t use staging for this, as it’s only usually found in Stage 4- it has spread to multiple areas. But I’m reading on this forum that Stage 4 is not a death sentence. Please could someone explain if Stage 4 and Terminal are different or not ?
Hi Lalala123 this question most likely will moult get a clear cut answer…… as it is ever so different across cancer types.
I was diagnosed way back in 1999 with rare incurable Non Hodgkins Lymphoma (Blood Cancer) and eventually reached Stage 4 in late 2013….. but 2 years of treatment put me into remission and I remain on n remission to this day….. although my cancer is asleep and could return.
So in my case Stage 4 was not a death sentence….. and I have been told that I most likely will die ‘with’ my cancer not because of it.
But each cancer type can be ever so different.
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Hello Lalala123 I agree with Mike, stage 4 does not always mean terminal, it often means treatment will be aggressive, but to say which cancer and variant in combination with mets, age, health, fitness and co-morbidities are curable is beyond my understanding i'm sorry to say, I too am stage 4 with mets "spread" and though i am terminal, i am treatable and have many years left, best wishes.
Eddie
Thank you, Good to know there are some success stories out there after stage 4. All the best to you
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