4 weeks ago

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4 weeks ago I was living my life. I got what I thought was a migraine so text my partner and said I'm going to bed don't put the light on.

Headache got a little better so got up and carried on as usual. 2 doctors visits over the next few weeks being told tension headaches. Was a bit of a stressful time, I'd just supported my mother through a hysterectomy due to cancer, so was looking after her and working 200 hours a month.

March 5th back to doctors and first day not going to work. Sent straight to hospital.

Then life became different. 

  • Hi   and a very warm welcome to the Community but sorry to hear your story.

    Your story will ring bells for many people on the Community….. and it can indeed change life overnight.

    What exact type of cancer have you been diagnosed with?

    Mike (Thehighlander)

    It always seems impossible until its done - Nelson Mandela

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  • Hi Mike I have lung cancer, large lesion in the cerebellum and something in my kidney. Hospital experience was horrific due to meds to reduce swelling in the brain. 

  • Hi again  thanks for this information.

    Navigating the cancer journey can be such a stressful and challenging time but getting support from people who have walked the ‘exact same' cancer journey can help a lot. (I have a completely different cancer).

    The Community is divided into dedicated Cancer Support Groups (Discussion Rooms) so can I recommend you join and post in some of our dedicated support groups. These groups are safe places to talk to others with a similar diagnosis, treatment experience, to ask questions and get support.

    To connect in with the group click on this linkPoint down

    Lung Cancer

    Brain, secondary tumours

    Kidney cancer

    …… then once the group page opens click on “Click to Join” when the black banner appears or “Join” under “Group Tools” (this all depends on the device you are using)

    When you are ready you can introduce yourself by clicking “+new” or “+” in the top right next to the group title. You can copy and paste the text from this post into your new post.

    You may find it helpful to call the Macmillan Support Line open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00. This service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support, benefits/financial guidance or just a listening ear. We also have our Ask an Expert section but do allow 3 working days for a reply.

    Talking to people face to face can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing and give support to all the family.

    Do get back to me if you need further help navigating the community.

    Mike (Thehighlander)

    It always seems impossible until its done - Nelson Mandela

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  • Thank you for reaching out Mike x