Hi my mum got diagnosed with bowel cancer last year unfortunately it spread to her liver and lungs 
we made it clear from the start that we did not want to no her prognosis, I found out in a very cruel way I’ve been sorting her life insurance out that can be paid out on critical illness and a newember of the insurance team didn’t read through the notes and told me what it was, I’ve been living with this for past month on my own and feel like I can’t cope just wanted to reach out for any advice or if anyone else is in a similar situation thank you xx
Hi Cazz15 and welcome to the Macmillan Community but so sorry to hear about your mum’s diagnosis and the challenges you are dealing with..
A cancer diagnosis like this in the family can be such a challenging and stressful time but getting support from others who are dealing with the ‘exact same' support challenges can help a lot.
The New to Community is like our reception desk where we look to direct you to the best part of the Community for you to get support. The Community is divided into dedicated Support Groups (Discussion Rooms) and when it comes to the practical and emotional challenges of supporting your mum and yourself you may benefit from joining and posting in our Carers only and Supporting someone with incurable cancer support groups where you will connect with others navigating the exact same support challenges.
To connect with a group click on the “Bold Italic Links” I have created above then once the group page opens click on “Click to Join” when the black banner appears or “Join” under “Group Tools” (this all depends on the device you are using)
You can then put up your own post when you’re ready by clicking “+new” or “+” in the top right next to the group title. You can copy and paste the text from this post into your new post.
It’s a challenging time for you so you may want to use the Macmillan Support Line is open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00. This service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support, benefits/financial guidance or just a listening ear.
Talking to people face to face can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing and support all the family.
Please do get back to me if you need further help navigating the community.
