Hi , my mum has just had her first chemo session -

Hi Kittyrach

I have also just been diagnosed. and have just told my grown up son, it is a Huge shock to the system, to all involved, just being there talking to each other, plenty of HUGS and KISSES, my son has taken it upon himself to find all the right foods I should and shouldn't eat, what smoothies he can make for me with concentrated mushroom powers in that go well with chemo treatment, for when I may not feel like eating. it all helps. they are just little things that make a big difference. good luck to you and your mum xx

Hi Kittyrach and welcome to the Online Community but so sorry to hear about your mum.

A cancer diagnosis like this in the family can be such a challenging and stressful time but getting support from others who are dealing with the ‘exact same' cancer type and support challenges can help a lot.

The Community is actually divided into dedicated Support Groups (Discussion Rooms) but you don’t say what type of cancer you mum has but if you care to have a look through THIS LIST you will find all our many dedicated cancer support groups listed. It’s important to get the right group as not all cancers react the same way.

These groups are safe places to talk to others who may have a similar diagnosis, treatment experience, to ask questions and get support from family members who are navigating the same journey.

Have a look through the LIST above and once you find the group for your mum’s cancer type you can join the group by selecting “Click to Join” when the black banner appears or “Join” under “Group Tools” (this all depends on the device you are using)

You can then put up your own post when you’re ready by clicking “+new” or “+” in the top right next to the group title. You can copy and paste the text from this post into your new post.

When it comes to the practical and emotional challenges of  Supporting a family member with canceryou may also benefit from joining our general Carers only support group where you will connect with others navigating the same support challenges.

Our Support Line teams are available 7 days a week, 8am-8pm on freephone 0808 808 00 00where you will find one of team there to help you out.

We also have our Ask an Expert section but do allow a few working days for a reply.

Talking to people face to face can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing.

Do get back to me if you need further help navigating the community.

Thank you