New diagnosis

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Hi everyone, on Monday I was diagnosed with grade 2 cancer in my right breast and lymph node in my right armpit. Still waiting for the HER2 result 

Did many of you go through a phase of not knowing how to feel?

  • Hi  and a very warm welcome to the Macmillan Community but sorry to hear about your diagnoses.

    Navigating the cancer journey can be such a stressful and challenging time but getting support from people who have walked the ‘exact same' cancer type journey can help a lot. (I have a completely different cancer).

    The Community is divided into dedicated Cancer Specific Support Groups (Discussion Rooms) so can I recommend you join and post in our dedicated Breast Cancer support group. This is a safe place to talk to others with a similar diagnosis, treatment experience, to ask questions and get support.

    To connect in with the group click on this link> Breast cancer then once the group page opens click on “Click to Join” when the black banner appears or “Join” under “Group Tools” (this all depends on the device you are using)

    When you are ready you can introduce yourself by clicking “+new” or “+” in the top right next to the group title. You can copy and paste the text from this post into your new post.

    The Macmillan Support Line is open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00. This service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support, benefits/financial guidance or just a listening ear.

    We also have our Ask an Expert section but do allow a few working days for a reply.

    Talking to people face to face can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing and give support to all the family.

    Do get back to me if you need further help navigating the community.

    Mike (Thehighlander)

    It always seems impossible until its done - Nelson Mandela

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  • Thankyou very much. Greatly appreciated Slight smile

  • Hi  , I was given the same diagnosis just over a week ago. I have no idea how to feel and have decided to lean into whatever I'm feeling at any given moment. I'm not sure there is any right or wrong way to feel. 

  • I don't think there is either. I just feel how I feel each day...maybe that will change once I see the specialist in a week