Hi everyone
My mum battled stage 4 lung cancer for 10 months. I cared for her right from the beginning. Taking her to her appointments visiting her in hospital as much as i could. Cooked, cleaned, for her at home helped her with her medication. But just over a week she lost her battle after being in hospital for a month after I rushed her in. Now someone who has been the only thing constant in my life, now is no longer here. How do you cope with that?
Hi Fival I am so sorry to hear that you are still coming to terms with the lose of your dear mum. I lost my mum 3 years this coming November, she did not have cancer but the lose is just as challenging. The saying ‘time heals’ is said a lot and in my case it’s true but for others it’s more complicated.
I see you have already joined our dedicated Bereaved family and friends support group. This is a safe place to talk with like minded people who are navigating the same challenges.
Why not click on the link above then introduce yourself to the group by setting up your own post by clicking “+new” or “+” in the top right next to the group title. You can copy and paste the text from this post into your new post.
The Macmillan Support Line is open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00. This service provides practical information, emotional support or just a listening ear.
Talking to people face to face can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing.
Do get back to me if you need further help navigating the community ((hugs))
