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Emotional anxiety 

    • Hi I had a lumpectomy over a year ago and all chemo and Radiotherapy have finished, I am now at the point of worrying if this cancer will return and can't shake it off, every little niggle or pain I have starts me off again and I worry that my hubby and i have not been close sexually since my diagnosis over a year ago, I don't feel sexy anymore
  • Hi  and a warm very welcome to the Macmillan Community but sorry to hear about your diagnoses and the challenges your are dealing with.

    Navigating the cancer journey can be such a stressful and challenging time but getting support from people who have walked the ‘exact same' cancer type journey can help a lot.

    The Community is divided into dedicated Cancer Specific Support Groups (Discussion Rooms) so can I recommend you join and posting in our dedicated Breast cancer support group. This is a safe place to talk to others with a similar diagnosis, treatment experience, to ask questions and get support.

    We also have our general Life after cancer support group where people unpack the post treatment challenges.

    To connect in with a group click on these links> Breast cancer and Life after cancer then once the group pages open click on “Click to Join” when the black banner appears or “Join” under “Group Tools” (this all depends on the device you are using)

    When you are ready you can introduce yourself by clicking “+new” or “+” in the top right next to the group title. You can copy and paste the text from this post into your new post.

    The Macmillan Support Line is open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00. This service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support or just a listening ear.

    Talking to people face to face can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing and give support to all the family.

    Do get back to me if you need further help navigating the community but in the meantime all the very best.

    Mike (Thehighlander)

    It always seems impossible until its done - Nelson Mandela

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