I lost my soul mate, partner, best friend 24july 2023 to throat cancer, he was only told December and had to make a choice of living for 3 months or having a major surgery which meant he lost his voice box, he choice the surgery which in 1 way I was so happy but if I knew then what i know now would i have changed his mind or will I always feel the pain of being selfish and hoping for more years, I miss him so much
Hi Walfin
I'm so sorry to read that you have recently lost your partner to cancer.
Please do follow Thehighlander's advice, in his reply to your previous post, to join the bereaved spouses and partners group as that is the best way to connect with others who have lost a loved one to cancer.
To do this just click on the link I've created, or the one in your reply from Thehighlander, and once you've joined you can start a new post in the same way as you did here and join in with existing conversations by clicking on 'reply'.
If you have any problems navigating the community please drop me a reply and I'll be pleased to help.
"Never regret a day in your life, good days give you happiness, bad days give you experience"
