I’m a single mum and I’ve just had a cystoscopy which revealed a mass in my bladder. They’ve taken a biopsy and I’m waiting for the results. I’m very scared and low as I have no support for my son who has autism and severe learning disabilities.
Hi Scared mummy and welcome to the Macmillan Community but I am so sorry to hear about your diagnoses.
The cancer journey can be such a stressful and challenging time but getting support from others who are dealing with the ‘exact same' cancer type can help a lot.
The Community is actually divided into dedicated Cancer Support Groups (Discussion Rooms) and I do see that you have joined, posted and received a reply in our dedicated Bladder cancer support group. This group is a safe place to talk to others with a similar diagnosis, treatment experience, to ask questions and get support.
It’s a challenging time for you so you may want to use the Macmillan Support Line is open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00. This service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support, benefits/financial guidance or just a listening ear.
We also have our Ask an Expert section but do allow a few working days for a reply.
Talking to people face to face can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing.
Do get back to me if you need further help navigating the community.
Hey hun please don't be scared i know it's not easy I've just been diagnosed with melanoma skin cancer I also have children with autism, we are all here for you 
️ keep your chin up darling I'm sure everything will be OK I'm here if you need a chat ♡
