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My OH has recently been diagnosed with prostate cancer.  I’m anxious, more than he is, I’ve lost a lot of family to cancer and it’s tough hearing those words “you have cancer”. 

  • Hi  and welcome to the Macmillan Community but so sorry to hear about your OHs diagnosis. A cancer diagnosis in the family can be such a challenging and stressful time but getting support from others who are dealing with the ‘exact same' cancer type and support challenges can help a lot.

    The Community is actually divided into dedicated Support Groups (Discussion Rooms) and I do see that you have already joined and posted in our Prostate cancer support group. This is a safe place to talk to others who may have a similar diagnosis, treatment experience, to ask questions and get support from family members who are navigating the same journey.

    When it comes to the practical and emotional challenges of supporting him you may also benefit from joining our Carers only support group where you will connect with others navigating the same support challenges.

    It’s a challenging time for you so you may want to use the Macmillan Support Line is open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00 or via Webchat and Email too. This service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support, benefits/financial guidance or just a listening ear.

    We also have our Ask an Expert section but do allow a few working days for a reply.

    Talking to people face to face can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing.

    Do get back to me if you need further help navigating the community.

    Mike (Thehighlander)

    It always seems impossible until its done - Nelson Mandela

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