Hi there
My name is chris and my mum died suddenly in may. She has breast cancer in 2014 and in January this year was given all clear after 10 years .
But in march became I'll couldn't eat and by mid april had lost 3 stone. Gp said it was hiatus hernia. That's why she could not eat. But turned out after a ct and MRI that she has mestastic breast cancer in liver ,pancreas ,spine . We were told on monday the 8th of may and she dies 215am on the thursday the 11th . I was by her side I flew in from scotland where I live.
After a few weeks we had a meeting with the professor who felt with her and were told that it was incredibly rare for 0.0567 % chance of getting it.
I guess the reason I ma on here is that I find it hard to digest and deal with that it was so aggressive and quick.
I say that I tried to save her but I couldn't I know not healthy but not sure what to do or say. Its effecting my marriage and work life as I am quite manic and rush things . Think it might be grief but not sure anyone else had similar and felling feeling similar.
Thanks for reading
Chris
Hi chris1302
I'm so sorry to read about the recent passing of your mum and I know what a difficult time this will be for you.
The online community is divided up into different support groups so I'm going to recommend that you join the bereaved family and friends group as you'll then connect directly with others who understand what you're going through.
To join, just click on the link I've created which will take you straight there. Once you've joined you can then start a new post in the same way as you did here and join in with existing conversations by clicking on 'reply'.
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