Feeling lost and hopeless

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Hello,I'm new..

My husband (50)been diagnosed with melanoma in October 22, growth on the scalp was removed,graft heald lovely, CT scan came out clear.. we regain hope! another scan was done in March , results came backDisappointedorrying, lymph nodes in neck enlarged,went for biopsy this Monday.. awaiting results.. feeling really down and low..I'm guessing like everyone here I'm feeling lost and can't believe this is happening to me Disappointed can't even imagine life without him..we have to children (boys) 5 and 14..just started lovely life and thing like this is happening..no families around to support us.. very difficult time Disappointedstarted looking for answers online and came across this website,read few posts and realised that that tradegy involves many many people (too many people) no matter what your backgrounds are.. wishinHeartbeatyou all and myself strength and courage Heartbeat

  • Hi  and welcome to the Online Community but so sorry to hear about your husbands diagnosis. A cancer diagnosis like this in the family can be such a challenging and stressful time but getting support from others who are dealing with the ‘exact same' cancer type and support challenges can help a lot.

    The Community is actually divided into dedicated Support Groups (Discussion Rooms) so can I recommend you consider joining our supportive Melanoma support group. This is a safe place to talk to others who may have a similar diagnosis, treatment experience, to ask questions and get support from family members who are navigating the same journey.

    When it comes to the practical and emotional challenges of supporting family and friends you may also benefit from joining our Carers only support group where you will connect with others navigating the same support challenges.

    To join a group first click on the “Bold Links” I have created above then once the group page opens click on “Click to Join” when the black banner appears or “Join” under “Group Tools” (this all depends on the device you are using)

    You can then put up your own post when you’re ready by clicking “+new” or “+” in the top right next to the group title. You can copy and paste the text from this post into your new post. You can also scroll through other members posts and click “Reply” to get involved.

    Our Support Line teams are available 7 days a week, 8am-8pm on freephone 0808 808 00 00email or live webchat where you will find one of team there to help you out. We also have our Ask an Expert section but do allow a few working days for a reply.

    Do get back to me if you need further help.

    Mike (Thehighlander)

    It always seems impossible until its done - Nelson Mandela

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