My daughter is about to have a mastectomy. How can I support her both physically post op and emotionally?
Hi Mitzi and welcome to the Online Community but so sorry to hear about your daughters diagnosis.
A cancer diagnosis in the family can be such a challenging and stressful time but reaching out to the community will give you the opportunity to ask questions and getting support from others who are on the ‘exact’ same journey.
The Community is divided into dedicated Support Groups (Discussion Rooms) so can I recommend you consider joining our supportive Breast cancer support group. This is a safe place to talk to others who may have a similar diagnosis, treatment experience, to ask questions and get support from family members who are navigating the same journey.
If you'd like to connect in with a group click on the Bold Group Link I have created above then click the join in the banner that appears, then click +new (or + on a mobile) to start a new post. You should see this at the top right of your screen.
When it comes to the practical and emotional challenges of supporting family you may also benefit from joining our general Family and friends support groups where you will connect with others navigating the same support challenges.
Our Support Line teams are available 7 days a week, 8am-8pm on freephone 0808 808 00 00, email or live webchat and we also have our Ask an Expert section but do allow a few working days for a reply.
Talking to people face to face can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing and support all the family.
Do get back to me if you need further help.
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