Hi I'm new to this group, I had two thirds of my left upper lobe removed 6 weeks ago. Consultant says I don't need chemo, even though they hadn't as yet had the results back from lymph nodes.I am to have ct scans every 3 months for a year then yearly for five years.I am so weak and emotional. I know I'm lucky to have this result, however i can't shake of this awful sadness.
I'm.sorry if this is the wrong place to post this but I needed to talk.
Hi Abw and a warm welcome to the Online Community but so sorry to hear about your diagnoses.
The cancer journey can be such a stressful and challenging time but you have done the right thing in reaching out to a place where you can ask questions and getting support from others who are on the ‘exact’ same cancer journey.
The Community is actually divided into support groups (discussion rooms) so can I recommend you join and post in our supportive Lung Cancer support group. This group is a safe place to talk to others with a similar diagnosis, treatment experience, to ask questions and get support.
If you'd like to connect in with a group click on the (Bold) Group Text Link I have created above. Once the group page opens click on the black banner that says [click to join] at the bottom, or the [Join] button under "Group tools."
You can then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘new post’ by clicking in the box near the top right with + New or + (Depending on the device you are using) and you are ready to go. You could copy and paste the text from this post into your new post.
The Macmillan Support Line is open from 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00 where you can talk with someone about specific cancer and practical information, get emotional support, benefits/financial guidance or just connect with a listening ear.
We also have our Ask an Expert section but do allow a few working days for a reply.
We also have our Telephone Buddy Service where you can be matched with someone who understands what you're going through, and they'll give you a weekly call.
Talking to people face to face can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing and aim to give support to all the family.
Do get back to me if you need further help.
Hi ABW
I think the way you are feeling is normal for what you are going through, be kind to yourself, you’ve had a big shock and surgery.
I am just starting my journey so any advice you can give me would help. How did you find your surgery?
Have you considered counselling? After my op I am going to see a lady who specialises in talking to cancer patients. Even though your outlook, like mine is good, it is still something to get your head round.
I hope every day you feel a bit stronger.
sending best wishes
D
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