Hi I new to the community,
I finally received a diagnosis on Friday that I have prostrate cancer. I am 62. I’ve been told that if all of the treatments available to me that surgery would be the best option to have a radical prostratecomy.
It has took 18 months of having visits to the doctor, cancelled appointments and seeing three consultants. But everything has sped up since having an MRI in December 22 and a biopsy in January 23 to my confirmation of my worst fear last Friday. After reading loads of information given to me by the Macmillan team and my Macmillan nurse who was brilliant has been very helpful to me in making my decision in going for the surgery.
the surgery scares me I have to admit but it is also the process of recover and the after effects of the surgery. I suppose a fear of the unknown as with a lot of people on here.
Hi Canon Man and a warm welcome to the Online Community but so sorry to hear about your diagnoses.
The cancer journey can be such a stressful and challenging time but you have done the right thing in reaching out to a place where you can ask questions and getting support from others who are on the ‘exact’ same cancer journey.
The Community is divided into support groups (discussion rooms) so can I recommend you join and post in our supportive Prostate cancer support group. This group is a safe place to talk to others with a similar diagnosis, treatment experience, to ask questions and get support.
If you'd like to connect in with a group click on the (Bold) Group Text Link I have created above. Once the group page opens click on the black banner that says [click to join] at the bottom, or the [Join] button under "Group tools."
You can then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘new post’ by clicking in the box near the top right with + New or + (Depending on the device you are using) and you are ready to go. You could copy and paste the text from this post into your new post.
The Macmillan Support Line is open from 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00 where you can talk with someone about specific cancer and practical information, get emotional support, benefits/financial guidance or just connect with a listening ear.
We also have our Ask an Expert section but do allow a few working days for a reply.
We also have our Telephone Buddy Service where you can be matched with someone who understands what you're going through, and they'll give you a weekly call.
Talking to people face to face can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing and aim to give support to all the family.
Do get back to me if you need further help.
