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Hi there, my husband is in end stage cancer and can only eat soft food. He is surviving on one poached egg, some leek and potato soup, plus some porridge for breakfast. Does anyone have any other suggestions? Occasionally he will have an Ensure. 

  • We used to make dad rice pudding or semolina. Mum used to put some vanilla ensure in his porridge to add extra calories. He would occasionally have a few sips of milkshake or ice cream/ ice lolly. Xx

  • Hi  and a welcome to the Online Community but so sorry to hear about your husbands diagnosis.

    A cancer diagnosis like this in the family can be such a challenging and stressful time but I do hope you will find the Community a safe place to get support from family members who are navigating the same journey.

    The Community is divided into support groups (discussion rooms) so can I recommend you join and post in our general Carers only and Supporting someone with incurable cancer support groups where you will connect with others dealing with the same challenges while supporting family.

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    We also have our Ask an Expert section but do allow a few working days for a reply.

    Talking to people face to face can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing and aim to give support to all the family.

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    Mike (Thehighlander)

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  • Thanks, that is such a good tip about adding Ensure.  Richard is finding En a bit sickly on its own, and can eat porridge happily in the mornings. xx Prim