Mams lung cancer diagnosed at 90 yrs young

Hi  and welcome to the Online Community but so sorry to hear about your mum’s diagnosis.

A cancer diagnosis in the family can be such a challenging and stressful time but I do hope you will find the Community a safe place to get support and to ask your questions.

The Community is divided into support groups (discussion rooms) so can I recommend you join and post in our supportive Lung Cancer support group. This is a safe place to talk to others who may have a similar diagnosis and treatment experience, to ask questions and get support from family members who are navigating the same journey.

If you'd like to connect in with a group click on the Green (Bold) Group link I have created above. Once the group page opens click on the black banner that says [click to join] at the bottom, or the [Join] button under "Group tools."

You can then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘new post’ by clicking in the box near the top right with + New or + (Depending on the device you are using) and you are ready to go. You could copy and paste the text from this post into your new post

When it comes to the practical and emotional challenges of supporting family you may also benefit from joining our general Family and friends and Carers only support groups where you will connect with others navigating the same support challenges.

The Macmillan Support Line is open from 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00 where you can talk with someone about specific cancer and practical information, get emotional support, benefits/financial guidance or just connect with a listening ear.  We also have our Ask an Expert section but do allow a few working days for a reply.

Talking to people face to face can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing and aim to give support to all the family.

Please do get back to me if you need further help.

Thank you so much it’s been so quick since diagnosed, only two months , mams been back and for to hospital, once with a failed discharge, mams deteriorated so much over the past week just want her home, It and physio are involved going to speak to them later , she’s been given 4 weeks or more by her doctor just want her home 

It a hard time for you all, as I have been the one in the hospital beds fir many many nights I have no real experience of the care side although my wife has been amazing over all our very challenging years.

Do get connected into the Family and friends and Carers only support groups as these are great places to connect with others navigating the same support challenges.

((hugs))