Hi I was diagnosed with breast cancer had an op a few weeks ago and turns out I also had it in 3 lymph nodes. Have appointment next Tuesday to find out if I need chemo and what else although they already said radiation to breast and nodes and hormone blocker for 10 years and maybe something else for bones. To be honest I don’t really do doctors medications etc so am very concerned about all these treatments and side effects but equally plan on living so guess need to embrace some of it. But I also know the big pharmaceuticals want us to have their stuff and that is not always in our best interests so find it all daunting
Hi and welcome to the Online Community although I am sorry to see you joining us and to hear about your diagnoses. A cancer diagnosis can be such a stressful and challenging time but when it comes to support there is nothing better than talking with others who are on the exact same cancer and treatment journey.
I see that you have already joined and posted in our Breast cancer group. This is a safe place to talk to others who may have a similar diagnosis, treatment experience, to ask questions and get support.
Macmillan have many support services so do check out the Macmillan Support Line open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00. These services provide cancer information, practical information, emotional support, benefits/financial guidance or just a listening ear.
We also have our Ask an Expert section but do allow a few working days for a reply.
We also have our Telephone Buddy Service where you can be matched with someone who understands what you're going through, and they'll give you a weekly call.
Talking to people face to face can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing and aim to give support to all the family.
Do get back to me if you need further help.
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