Life expectancy of my husband

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We had our third  consultation today not good news my husband has stage  4 brain cancer and we have been told today that he has 6-9 months left to live … I knew it was bad but the shock of it has hit hard I need him to remain positive he is still on chemo pills but I dont know what will happen In the future. Will he end up in a hospice ? What will happen in the process how do I find out.? I want the best care for him. I have so many questions 

  • Hi  and welcome to the Online Community although I am sorry to hear about your husbands diagnosis.

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  • Hi Ronnie27 My husband has been given the same prognosis, he was diagnosed with a low grade tumour last November but it has spread rapidly since his last scan in May, and it has now changed into a high grade tumour and he has been given months left to live, he is due soon to start radiotherapy. I too am scared of what's going to happen in the coming months

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    Former Member in reply to Flowergirl1

    It’s hard to deal with I know how you feel it’s really scary my husband was diagnosed in may with grade 4 he has had radiotherapy and is now on chemo pills I just hope it prolongs his quality of life a bit longer. Sending you hugs xxx

  • Thank you for replying, it's so hard to come to terms with, it turns your life upside down. I'm trying to be positive for my husband but inside it's tearing me apart. Thinking of you and your husband xx