Despite having friends and a daughter living nearby since my husband was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer 18th mths ago I feel lonely. Its ridiculous as I have a social life singly and we do go out for lunches with friends. I can't explain why I feel lonely I guess it's just a case of being the only carer and seeing him deteriorate. Does anyone else feel the same.
Hi Tai and welcome to the Online Community although I am sorry to hear about your husbands diagnosis.
A cancer diagnosis in the family can be such a stressful and challenging time but I do hope you will find the community a safe place to get support and ask your questions.
The Community is divided into support groups (discussion rooms) and ai see you have already joined our Carers only group. This is a safe place to talk to others who are supporting family, to ask questions and get support.
If you'd like to connect in with a group click on the Green (Bold) link(s) I have created above. Once the group page opens you can then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘new post’ by clicking in the box near the top right with + New or + (Depending on the device you are using) and you are ready to go. You could copy and paste the text from this post into your new post.
Macmillan have many support services so do check out the Macmillan Support Line is open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00. These services provide cancer information, practical information, emotional support, benefits/financial guidance or just a listening ear.
Talking to people face to face can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing supporting all the family.
Give me a shout if you need further help.
All the very best.
