I wonder if anybody could help.
If I were to have concerns about the way that my terminally ill Mother is being cared for or treated by my sibling who is best to contact?
Although my sibling isn’t technically my Mothers carer, they do live together.
Unfortunately I know that all is not good.
Any help greatly appreciated.
Hi ThoughtfulMe
Sorry to read this, it can be a real issue where siblings differ on the care need of a parent. I wonder have you spoken to your mother and see what she thinks. Do you know who your mother might list as next of kin?
<<hugs>>
Steve
Thanks for the reply.
Speaking to my Mother would be a waste of time.
Although i’m not entirely out of contact with my Mother, any thoughts or concerns I have would be dismissed.
My sibling has the final say, so much so that it is clear that my Mother is either fearful or scared.
Hi you have rral concerns you could speak to your mum's go or social services it may be yoursister is struggling with your mum's diagnosis and struggling to cope. Looking after her. Maybe you can talk to her and offer her help in looking after your mum so she can have a break .i wish you the best
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