She died last September ST4. Question keep circling my mind. Did sh know she was dying. Her last 3 days she jus lay there as though she was sleeping. The doctors decide to stop all treatment as it was not helping. One of the questions, did she know she was dying? She is buried in nearby cemetery. I don't like to go there as I believe she I not there and I am expecting her to come home soon. I did go to the funeral.
Jan
Hi Jan and a warm welcome to the Online Community although I am so sorry to hear about your daughter, my sincere condolences. I am the one with cancer but I lost my mum during the height of the covid restrictions so was not able to be with her when she passed. Lots of questions….. but 20 months on we concentrate on remembering the happy times we had with her.
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Talking to people face to face can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing and provide support for all the family.
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All the very best.
