Husband has been diagnosed with cancer in 3 places, spine, lung and testicles.
the doctors never diagnosed it, and now he’s in hospital and there still testing.
I am angry, scared don’t know what to do
Hi and a very warm welcome to the online community which I hope you'll find is both an informative and supportive place to be.
I'm sorry to read that your husband has been diagnosed with cancer in 3 places and it's natural to feel angry and scared.
The online community is divided up into different support groups and, as I'm not sure from your post if your husband has 3 separate cancers or come are secondaries, I'm going to provide links to all of the groups. You can then choose which ones are appropriate, then join and post in the same way as you did here. You can also join in with existing conversations by clicking on 'reply'.
bone cancer group
secondary bone cancer group
lung cancer group
secondary lung cancer group
testicular cancer group
All of these groups are great place to ask questions and share experiences.
Another group which I think you'd benefit from joining is the carers only group which is a safe and supportive place to discuss your worries and emotions with others who have a loved one living with cancer. Again, clicking on the link I've created will take you straight there.
It would be great if you could pop something about your husband's symptoms and tests so far into your profile as it really helps others when replying to you and also when looking for someone on a similar pathway. It also means that you don't have to keep repeating yourself. To do this click on your username and then select 'Profile'. You can amend it at any time and if you're not sure what to write you can take a look at mine by clicking on my username.
If you have any difficulty navigating the community just drop me a reply and I'll be pleased to help
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