Struggling

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Hi, my mum is deteriorating. She’s got stage 4 high grade primary peritoneal cancer and endometrial cancer and can’t/won’t have any more treatment. She’s been given 6 months. I’m sad x

  • Hi  and welcome to the Online Community although I am so sorry to hear about your mum’s diagnosis. A cancer diagnosis like this in the family can be a very stressful and challenging time for everyone involved but I do hope you find the community a safe place to get support and ask your questions.

    The New to Community is like our reception desk where you can be signpost to our various cancer support groups and other services 

    When it comes to the practical and emotional challenges of supporting someone on their cancer journey you may benefit from joining our supportive Carers only and Supporting someone with incurable cancer groups where you will connect with others supporting family and friends

    If you'd like to connect in with a group click on the Green link I have created above. Then once the page opens click on the black banner that says [click to join] at the bottom, or the [Join] button under "Group tools."

    You can then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘new post’ by clicking in the box near the top right with + New or + (Depending on the device you are using) and you are ready to go.

    You could copy and paste the text from this post into your new post and as always you can reply to existing ‘Discussions’ by click [reply].

    The Macmillan Support Line is open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00 or via Webchat and Email too. This service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support, benefits/financial guidance or just a listening ear. You may also find our Cancer Nurse Team in our Ask an Expert section helpful but do allow a few working days for a reply.

    Talking to people face to face when on a cancer journey (patient or family) can be very helpful but during these strange times it’s not that available but do check to see if any Local Macmillan Support in your area has opened up. Do also check out for a local Maggie's Centre in your area as these folks are amazing and provide support for all the family.

    Always around if you need further help in navigating the community.

    All the very best.

    Mike (Thehighlander)

    It always seems impossible until its done - Nelson Mandela

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