Hi I'm new on here I lost my mum 2 weeks ago today to bowel cancer which was terminal.She was so strong trying to fight the cancer but after 2half years she lost her fight I'm devastated as is my family .We had mums funeral last Thursday which was so hard .I'm struggling day by day some better than others like a roller coaster at the minute few wobbles here and there.I miss her so much I still talk to her .She fought to see her first great grandchild but hasnt been able to see her second who is due this week .Its so hard trying to carry on a normal life if you will. anyone else feel like this .
Hi Sammiseal and welcome to the Online Community although I am so sorry to hear about your mum, my sincere condolences. I lost my mum rather suddenly a year past November so do understand the journey you are on.
The New to Community is like our reception desk where you can be signpost to our various cancer support groups and other services so can I recommend that you consider joining our supportive Bereaved family and friends group. This will be a safe place to talk to others who are on the same journey, to ask questions and get support.
If you'd like to connect in with a group click on the Green link I have created above. Then once the page opens click on the black banner that says [click to join] at the bottom, or the [Join] button under "Group tools."
You can then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘new post’ by clicking in the box near the top right with + New or + (Depending on the device you are using) and you are ready to go.
You could copy and paste the text from this post into your new post and as always you can reply to existing ‘Discussions’ by click [reply].
The Macmillan Support Line is open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00 or via Webchat and Email too. This service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support, benefits/financial guidance or just a listening ear. You may also find our Ask an Expert section helpful but do allow a few working days for a reply.
Talking to people face to face when on a cancer journey can be very helpful but during these strange times it’s not that available but do check to see if any Local Macmillan Support in your area has opened up. Do also check out for a local Maggie's Centre in your area as these folks are amazing and provide support for all the family.
Always around if you need further help in navigating the community.
All the very best ((hugs))
