Hi Ashes and a very warm welcome to the online community which I hope you'll find is an informative and supportive place.
I'm really sorry to read that your dad has been diagnosed with choroidal melanoma which has spread to his liver and it's natural to feel as you do.
I can see that you've already found and joined the eye cancer group which is a great place to ask questions, share experiences and get support from people with a similar diagnosis.
When you feel ready to post there clicking on the link I've created will take you straight there where you can then introduce yourself and post in the same way as you did here and join in with existing conversations by clicking on 'reply'.
It would be great if you could pop something about your dad's diagnosis and treatment so far into your profile as it really helps others when replying to you and also when looking for someone on a similar pathway. It also means that you don't have to keep repeating yourself. To do this click on your username and then select 'Profile'. You can amend it at any time and if you're not sure what to write you can take a look at mine by clicking on my username.
If you have any difficulty navigating the community just drop me a reply and I'll be pleased to help
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